| Location | Llansanner |
| Age | 41 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 15/10/1966 |
| Date of Death | 2007 |
| Visitors | 1,095 since 27/11/2008 |
| Creator |
I hadn't really got to know Judy as much as I was looking forward to. The first time we met, I took to her straightaway. She was such a kind and thoughtful person. During the preparations for my wedding to Judy's brother David, I started to panic and couldn't get myself together, I hadn't a clue what I was going to wear, or where to start with the wedding and party arrangements.. We found out that Judy had cancer just before our wedding, it was a sickening blow we were all devastated and I wanted to cancel the wedding until Judy might be fit to attend. But she persuaded me to go ahead, and not only that, she passed on much appreciated good advice that helped calm me down. Without her help the wedding certainly wouldn't have gone as smoothly as it did. Despite her own illness she kept me together, never once complaining about her illness...She kept those around her strong and held us all together. She was a remarkable very beautiful young lady and my only regret is we never had more time to get to know one another. But I see her lovely face every day when my husband Dave comes home and gives me a big smile. He is the image of his sister and he misses her so much. We often talk about her and certainly couldn’t ever forget her. She has left a huge gap in the lives of all her family and friends... A Note for You Judy…. I have kept my promise and have done what you asked, and always will. God Bless sweetie. We love you so...xxxxx Rhonda
To Our Sweet Angel
Hi Judy,just stopped by to say we haven,t forgotten you. I think about you always,and we miss you very much. There has been a lot going on here as I am sure you know.. My dad is not too good right now and it's a constant worry..Your dad (our dad ) has had an accident and hurt his arm a bit back but still he carrie on his loving duties to his family. Mum and Barry are doing god right now and your brother David is plodding along and together we are doing the best that we can..Ian has been a rock to mum and dad and continues to be so,,Caroline has had an operation and is recovering ,,Aunty Freda and Pip are with you now so you have good company,Please let mum know that we all love and miss her very much and like you we think of her always too..When I am not here you are still in our hearts and minds .God bless you sweet Angel. I have you here with me every day in your brother David. He looks so like you and his heart is good and kind as yours ..Look down on him Judy and guide him always .. Till another day ..R.I.P XXXX your loving family...
Hi Judy Me Again..
Hi ,Our sweet angel..Just sat here having a good old cry..Dave has just come home and mentioned you and it set me off..He said it might be better if memories didnt exist ,then we wouldn't have to go through all the constant pain we feel when we remember our loved ones who are no longer with us in the flesh..I agreed ,but then it would be impossible to forget you all..You had such an impact on our lives,whilst my time with you was short ,it was meaningful and enough to let me know that i was accepted into your family,,long enough to know how much you loved your family and what a wonderful very beautiful lady you where....One day Judy we will meet again and until then Princess watch over Ian ,mum dad brother Barry and David..We all love and Miss you very much..xxx Rhonda on behalf of us all..
Easter wishes xx
Hi Judy ..Just called by to wish you a very happy Easter, from all your family and friends ..Just to remind you how much you were loved and treasured and still are..Now your picture is on our wall I can look at you everyday..Everyone has commentated how pretty you look..and yes you were beautiful inside and out..How mum , dad, Dave, Barry and Ian cope I have no idea,as it breaks my heart every time I think of you..I still have the e -mails you sent me,and the words you spoke to me over the phone are still clear in my head..You are and always will be a very special Sister-In Law to me..Caroline and Trinda where at mum and dads the other week,and as usual everyone had a great time..Barry would have been so excited..God Bless sweetie, hope you are enjoying a few Cadburys eggs, yummy..xx luv and leave you for now but be back again soon..xxRhonda Dave and all xxxx
Judy In The Sky With Diamonds
Hi Judy..and you are one of those diamonds Judy...Dave and I were talking about you again the other night..He had a good cry and said how much he missed you..It tears me in two Judy.Your mum and dad miss you so much ,everyone who knew you miss you I feel certain. of that..
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We are going to spend Christmas with mum dad and Barry. I know they will be thinking of you as we are too,. Mum always tells me about the lovely perfume you used to buy her,but she forgot the name of it..Perhaps you could somehow find a way of letting me know what it was, and then I could get her some, in fact if you do let me know I will say it's from you..
Well got to go now but you will be in my thoughts as you always are and I will be back to chat with you again soon..God Bless precious...xx
Rhonda xx
I Didn't forget your Birthday xx
Hi Judy..No I didn't forget..Just found it a bit difficult to open up this page at the time..Dave,mum and dad are all feeling a bit sad and low at the minute..I spoke to dad on the phone on your birthday and he told me he was finding it hard...We all miss you love,and it sounds like Ian is off with the paintbrush again..I think it must be his way of coping. I wish I could reach out and take all the pain away for the family as it hurts me to feel their sadness.I know that you are in a beautiful place, surrounded by family and friend's of time gone by and meeting lot's of new ones. But I believe one day we shall all meet again..Before I go just to let you know what a wonderful brother you have, well you have two wonderful brothers,but I'm talking about the one I married..He's the best ever ,hes good and kind, thoughtful and loving, all the wondeful characteristics that you had and that's we all miss you so much..In our thoughts every day ..God Bless sweetie..Rhondaxxx
In Thoughts
Hi Judy, just stopped by to say a quick hello and let you know we never stop thinking about you,and mention your name quite often....We will be going over to visit mum dad and Barry very soon now..It's been a long time..Mum is sounding very well and it will be great to see them all again..I will back pinching dad's M&M's..Yummy love them.......Can't wait to feast myself on some of their home grown tomatoes....Barry has just got a new pair of slippers, Caroline and Trinda got him some..We couldn't get any comic ones his size down here so at least he will be happy..We have heard that Ian is working very hard and had a lovely conservative built at the house..But then I am sure you are watching over him and subconciously guiding him along in the best way possible.. In fact I sometimes feel you close to David and I ,esp when we are talking about you or having a little weep together....xx anyway Precious Daves has just come home and got to get off and make tea..Nite nite sleep tight precious..xxx
Hi Judy
Hi Judy,,jus to let you know that your mum is sounding good after her long spell in hospital..We were very worried at the time,but my word she's a strong woman..Not been home long when she had her pinny on and was talking about getting dinner ready..I am sure you were with her every step of the way watching over her and willing her better..Ian has been great,hes been visiting her regularly and bringing her in food and creams to stop her skin from drying out..Dad and Barry have coped very well,we kept in contact with them almost daily during your mums stay in hospital,apart from when dad went down to stay with Ian and neither we nor him could make contact..David is missing you pretty bad Judy,to be honest it's really just hitting him ..It almost breaks my heart when he starts to talk about you with tears in his eyes,we have gone through a tough two years and I know he wished you had of been here to give him some good advice..I always try to say to him what I can only think you yourself would have said..Sometimes he has actually turned to me and said" you sound just like Judy..He's a real love and I am so glad I married him, we are so happy together.. I just so wish you were around,I am sure you would have taught me plenty..But you have left me the best inlaws anyone could wish for and I love them all..Your mum and dad miss you so very much and you are never far away in any of our conversations.. will you give my mum a big hug from me,tell her we are all missing her very much and dad is lost without her..God Bless Judy,you will never be forgotten xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi Judy
Just stopped by to say hello Judy..Easter is almost upoun us and all the flowers in the garden are beginning to show their pretty heads. Dave was out in the garden yesterday ,he loves pottering about out there and makes things look so beautiful every time he goes out there..I watched him from indoors as it was soooo cold..We have a new addition to the family..Aaron and Tina have had a beautiful baby boy,8lb 40z and they are calling him Jacob Samuel. He has the biggest mop of black hair...Mum Dad and Barry are all doing fine, Barry had a haircut last week at the new hairdressers. Your dad was saying how expensive it was ..lol..Caroline and Trinda were down seeing them the other week..It's good for them all..Barry loves them going there..we have sent Barry some chocolate Easter Chicks. Yes I know he probably won't eat them but stick them on his shelf..But as long as it makes him happy is all that matters don't you think Judy..Your dad is keeping your gardens looking good by the sound of things and Ian has a new car,,well I'm sure you can see all of this and are w atching over them , give your mum and dad a special hug Judy , they are missing you badly,as we all are .. God bless you love and have a lovely Easter, bet you are making cards up there for everyone Rhonda ( sister In Law,), xxxx
Last night we lit candles in the living room. And Dave turned to me with tears in his eyes and told me for the umpteenth time about the storm candles he bought you one year. ..I like it when he talks about you and never tire of the storm candles tale. We are both feeling a bit sad right now with Xmas coming up. .God forbids, I can only imagine how hard it is for mum and dad right now. They try and appear strong on the outside, but I can see the sadness in their eyes sometimes and it really churns me up inside. We always talk about you when we are with them, everything from when you were a little girl, and the dresses mum made you, to the beautiful, clever young woman you had become.
We got Barry a megaphone and boy does he like it. .You’d laugh your head off if you heard him call for his mum and dad through it... It has been one of mine and David's best buys because of the immense pleasure he has gets from it...
Caroline and Trinder are going to mum and dads next week... It will be good for them as mum goes into hospital tomorrow, so will take her mind of things. .Ian is taking her to the hospital. From what we hear, he’s doing a good job making sure that mum get's looked after properly in the hospital and knows exactly what's going on. Just like you used to do for her and dad...Well Judy got to get back to do some work, will pop back soon...love hugs and kisses from all of us...
Rhonda xx
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